I’m hitting this problem too and there’s been radio silence on this issue for a while.
I’m doing the same thing as @sgarciac is: setting email_verified to false on the user and mark_email_as_verified to true in the password change ticket, yet I only ever get verification emails and never a password reset. I’ve tried messing around with both of those fields too with various combinations of true and false on the off chance the guide was wrong.