I want to change user meta by asking user permisson

The password-change email can be sent to users who already exist. Are the admin adding the users manually or are you generating a password change ticket for existing users?:
POST
/api/v2/tickets/password-change

You may find this topic answer helpful for setting up a hook that sends a password change email when a new user is created:

Here is additional documentation on invitation-based flows: Send Email Invitations for Application Signup